One of the hardest parts about going through a divorce is the feeling like you’re losing control. When your ex is coming at you at full-speed and you feel like you’re about to crash, it’s most likely because he or she believes they have some kind of leverage over you. Sometimes it feels like you’re powerless to stop it.
Luckily, you have the opportunity to take back control of the situation. Start by taking responsibility for your own actions. What do you need to do to move past this? How can you react differently to maintain control?
Once you’ve answered these questions, you can start putting a plan in place. By taking responsibility for the situation, you have the chance to lessen the severity of whatever leverage your ex has, or thinks she has. The proverbial ball is back in your court.
Once you are prepared, the next time your ex tries to use any type of personal or emotional leverage against you, you can beat her at her own game. It’s time for your own Jedi mind moves! Take back control.
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